Love

SIGNS IT ISN’T LOVE

“Love” is hard.  Not complex but hard. Especially when it comes to knowing if you really have it. I talk a lot about signs it is love, but here’s a list of common signs especially feelings we attribute to “love” that actually are not. YOU’RE FLYING HIGH Love is not about highs and “peaks.” Everyone experiences the elation of […]

Love

LOVE DOES NOT CONQUER ALL

Despite whatever you might have been told, love is not all you need. When it comes to relationships, you need a whole lot more, like compatible beliefs, mutual respect, and communication. Love and compatibility are often mistaken as the same. But they’re two very different things. Circumstance matters a lot You can wholeheartedly love something that […]

Relationship

WHEN COMMUNICATION IS NOT ENOUGH

If you ask people what “the key to making a relationship last” is, one of the most common answers you’ll get is: “Communication.” (That, as well as “trust,” or “respect,” or whatever…) But the thing is… “Communication” is not the secret And whoever thinks it is needs to do a real gut-check on this one. Folks […]